There isn't much that he does agree on when it comes to traditional Christianity. Objectively speaking, he is living in "mortal sin" as we Catholics call it. In other words, he is dead in his sin; cut off from the living grace of God through his own self-serving behavior and perverted desires.
It really irks me when he reverts to his "cathilic faith" as the basis for anything: as if the Faith was of any import to him. I pray for his conversion of heart and leave him to the mercy of God. But, IMHO, I think his bishop should "... deliver this man to Satan for the destruction of his flesh, so that his spirit may be saved on the day of the Lord.[1 Cor 5:5]" (excommunication)
Hi Thomas, long time no see!
I too detest people who have such a superficial level of supposed faith. Either you are Catholic/Reformed/Lutheran/whatever or you are not. You can't split the two.
Don't act like one of the elect if you aren't.
(Hope you are well) GC