or say "don't blame us" while secretly supporting their murderous ways, then, and only then, will your argument maybe hold some water.
Who?
American Muslims have shown their complicity with their terrorist brethren. Mosques collect for Hamas, the PLO and Al Qaeda. Mosques and the Muslim community in America allowed the 9-11 hijackers to hide, provided them with funds, and helped them integrate into American society. Instead of getting their house in order, Muslims claim victim-hood. As long as Jihad remains a tenant of Islam, and as long as American Muslims remain largely silent (and supportive) of the evil that their fellow believers are doing in the name of Allah, they should expect the well-earned distrust that they are receiving.