So, tell me:
Why should our government marry you or anyone?
What, you don't want Bill Clinton's signature of approval on your marriage?
Sorry to answer a question with a question, but:
So tell me, why overturn 228 years of American legal tradition just because some judges are acting out of line? Don't screw with the laws, impeach the morons!
Note: If the State has no place in marriage law (to ensure uniformity of application of the law, for instance) why didn't the Founders turn it over to the Church?