You, you mean that your relatives didn't even serve them to you! No restaurant had them, oh, I am so, so sorry!
Grits are wonderful, succulent, tasty served with butter and salt and pepper and eggs and red-eye gravy and ham, oh my... my mouth is watering just thinking of it!
But I'm sure they do serve them at the restaurants but we were not to any restaraunts for breakfast.
My aunts (who I stayed with) are in thier 80's and don't get to eat much more than bacon and eggs.
Are you in Tennessee?