Hmm.... Got everything going for us except the religious part (well, she is but I'm not).
Well, there you go! I don't see why meeting in a bar, or visiting bars, would make a big difference. (I drink too much at home :-).
My husband and I met when we were doing medieval reenacting, which is a much weirder scene than the average bar ... but somehow we've been married for 15 years and seven kids. (Pictures available on the Tax-chick page.) We weren't religious when we got married, either, although we are now.