Well, there you go! I don't see why meeting in a bar, or visiting bars, would make a big difference. (I drink too much at home :-).
My husband and I met when we were doing medieval reenacting, which is a much weirder scene than the average bar ... but somehow we've been married for 15 years and seven kids. (Pictures available on the Tax-chick page.) We weren't religious when we got married, either, although we are now.
Well, in the minds of some fuddy-duddies, women don't like to go to bars or stay out late. My feeling has always been, there is no reason why a woman shouldn't enjoy beer, play pool or throw darts, if that's what she enjoys.
but somehow we've been married for 15 years and seven kids
Woah! 7? Are you trying to put together a football team, or will you settle for having enough kids for baseball?