[Mariner]

"most men want a woman who works"

Yes, but it's not about the extra income or the big toys. It's insurance against alimony and community property divisions........when it's ALL their property.

While the VAST majority of women would preserve no-fault divorce and community property laws, they would also have us marry, let them stay home.....and divorce whenever they wish for whatever reason they wish.

I advise all young men to avoid marriage and the siring of children unless they're REALLY sure about the woman, and she's gainfully employed.

My idea is better: I'll stay home, cook, clean, raise the kids, run errands all day...she works...and I'll give her sex every night upon her arrival back home:)

[Varda]

" it's not about the extra income or the big toys. It's insurance against alimony and community property divisions........when it's ALL their property."

Actually I think what you named is just more in the same category of "toys" or more accurately, material goods. I would bet against the long term prospects of a marriage where the preservation of property was the guiding factor in a marriage decision. Men and women both do this I know... it's not a good trend.

[Valin]

and I'll give her sex every night upon her arrival back home:)

WHAT A GUY! :-)