This mother and her child are very dear to me. She has been a friend of mine for ten years, and I have been close to this kid for all of his life. She is a wonderful mother and her child needs to be with her. He wants to be with her. She is not a sicko or crazy - and she needs support instead of criticism.
I dont mean to be rude or nasty and I dont hate this woman, but she is obviously not packing a full sea bag.
This kid is totally screwed up as a result of mistakes she made. She had sex with a man she knew was gay, with the express purpose of having a child she knew would be raised in a sick home. Yes : Even had she moved in and had joint custody the child being raised in a home with 2 queers and a woman who loved neither,is a sick home.
She made some really bad decisions, she is lucky she nor the child havent got Aids. I dont doubt the child would be better off with the mother, but the mother really has no one to blame but herself. A parental trio, Is she nuts? You say no, I can only take your word for it. 2 fruits and a single mother who thinks she was going to move in with them and be happy ever after?
She may be a really nice lady but she made her bed and unfortunately the childs bed , and now she has to lay in it.
I feel sorry for her and the child, but where the hell was her mind when she decided to spread her legs and allow a pervert to breed with her?
I am sure she needs your support and I am happy that you are giving it to her, we all make bad decisions at times and need support from our friends, I also agree she would probably make a better parent than the 2 fruits, but unfortunately the damage to this child has already been done and if she ever gets the child she has an uphill battle to save him. I hope she is capable of it.I am certain she is a lot smarter now than she was when she made this deal from hell.