You're right. I mistakenly suggested this had something to do with getting a man. But I do stand by the point that the men they are pursuing aren't so interested in marrying someone just like themselves.
That's a debatable point. Personally, I'd find it intolerable to date, much less marry, some touchy-feely "sensitive" man--I have absolutely no patience for all of that mushy stuff. (Few people are as logical as I am.) Maybe you're not looking for someone exactly like yourself, but I don't think you'd want someone completely different, either.