[Rytwyng]

am hoping to get one mugu to drive 40 miles to another city to meet me, though

Are you aware of the potential threat of violence? I hope you're not actually planning to meet the person. Videotaping anonymously from a safe distance, on the other hand, could be fun...

[Dimensio]

Are you aware of the potential threat of violence?

Fully. Somehow I doubt that will be an issue, given that he's supposed to meet me in Pretoria, South Africa and I've not left the city of Louisville, KY.

I "return" on Saturday. On Monday, I will send him an email berating him for never finding me. Naturally, I've been unable to call him with the number that he provided, though I've been calling my "secretary" and having "her" forward messages to him from "her" email account.