This is like Bill Cosby as a kid saying..."Spread out, there no need for him to hit all of us". Did I say something that upset you? I don't think so.
There's a big difference between Catholics and Catholicism, particularly as practiced in the US. Vatican II, which was written by and for RCC elitists, has very little significance to the majority of Sunday mass goers and even less for the Chritmas and Easter crowd.
Methinks that you're better with words than to paint everybody with the same brush, unless, of course, that was your intent.