You wouldn't have a problem with your child engaging in sexually deviant acts, all the while hamming it up for the camera?
One of my children is in the military, as are two nephews and a niece. Two of them are in Iraq. You would not find them forcing men and women into sexually deviant (homosexual, s&m, etc.) positions such as we have seen, no matter if they are terrorists or not.
There is no excuse for that kind of behavior.
The fact that that woman's family is criticizing President Bush and others, about his speaking out against such deviant/sinful acts speaks volumes about their household and how they raised her.
Their dad did it. Put it in perspective. These people were fed to dogs and plastic shredders a few years ago. Yeah, it's stupid but it doesn't rise to the level of "torture". It's hazing.