I'm sorry you're stuck with a boss who's obviously jealous of and resents that you have a family to care for. (I'm stereotyping here, but it's been my experience that those who don't make allowances for the normal everyday ups and downs of having and caring for a family usually don't have close relationships themselves.)
He's on wife #2. The funny part is, he thinks he's "motivating" me to do better for him.
Ah, well, the Hell with it. I loved the job, but it's NOTHING compared to my wife's and baby's welfare.
I just can't believe someone would do that to a loyal, hardworking Petty Officer. In this business, ya meet all kinds, I suppose. Funny thing is, I've known him for seven years, even before he was a Chief and we were the same rank. He's met Mrs. Cut and knows her.