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To: Orlando
Actually, unlike libs that love abortion. (kill the kids BEFORE they are born) Most men love their children when they are born. But for what ever reason the marrigae does not work (unwed is yet another issue) SOME men feel that Divorce means that all resposibility for the children ends. Stangely enough they never understand that children of divorce look to the Child support payments as a sign that the absent parent still loves them. I often wonder when money is tight, and the Parent has to tell the child I'm sorry we can't afford this or that, or mac and cheeze is the meal s for a week, the absent parent wonders why the child doesn't care about them. It's called what goes around comes around. But then if the parent doesn't care whether their child grows up secure and happy, don't pay the support. and GO TO JAIL.
4 posted on 02/27/2004 2:29:14 AM PST by marty60
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To: marty60
SOME men feel that Divorce means that all resposibility for the children ends. Stangely enough they never understand that children of divorce look to the Child support payments as a sign that the absent parent still loves them

My ex feels just this way.

5 posted on 02/27/2004 2:37:12 AM PST by annyokie (There are two sides to every argument, but I'm too busy to listen to yours.)
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To: marty60
That's the value put on a lot of children today: how much money each per month the lazy mother can get for them. That is what these children hear from month to month: whether or not the father paid the designated amount, whether or not the mean government gave more money or benefits for them through the welfare check. And we wonder about the emptiness of our children's souls, when their mothers' have already put dollar values on them. God bless the children.
7 posted on 02/27/2004 3:22:15 AM PST by abclily
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To: marty60
I often wonder when money is tight, and the Parent has to tell the child I'm sorry we can't afford this or that, or mac and cheeze is the meal s for a week, the absent parent wonders why the child doesn't care about them.

The bimbo who was waxing so enthusiastic about her fat checks collected $1800 per month on top of whatever else she received. She'll undoubtedly spend that $345,000 on her son, for sure.

Fathers have an obligation to support their children, without a doubt. But our current feminized "woman takes all" system is grievously unfair.

12 posted on 02/27/2004 7:48:44 AM PST by jimt
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To: marty60
I can tell you really aren't familiar with the child support issue. Fathers in the US have always had the highest rate of payment of child support in the world, simply because economic conditions in the US have allowed it. The primary reason some fathers are behind in payments or don't pay is because they are not able to pay as much as they've been ordered to pay -- not because they don't care about their children or are genetically irresponsible.

The reason we have a federal child support enforcement program that is strongly supported by all state governments, is because it provides more than 4 billion dollars in annual funding. It's your tax money, and all the people who are sucking it down without giving anything back are sayin' --- thank sucker!
33 posted on 02/27/2004 9:11:22 AM PST by RogerFGay
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To: marty60
Orlando's a newbie - maybe a troll. Conservatives back responsibility -- and that includes insisting parents support their own children.
47 posted on 02/27/2004 9:42:16 AM PST by GOPJ (NFL Fatcats: Grown men don't watch hollywood peep shows with wives and children.)
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To: marty60
Orlando's a newbie - maybe a troll. Conservatives back responsibility -- and that includes insisting parents support their own children.
48 posted on 02/27/2004 9:42:28 AM PST by GOPJ (NFL Fatcats: Grown men don't watch hollywood peep shows with wives and children.)
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To: marty60
I think... you're being sarcastic. But if you're not...
"Stangely enough they never understand that children of divorce look to the Child support payments as a sign that the absent parent still loves them."

huh?

SOME men feel that Divorce means that all resposibility for the children ends.

I'd say very few (as a %) divorced fathers feel this way.

50 posted on 02/27/2004 9:45:07 AM PST by paulsy
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To: marty60
You have no idea what you are talking about.

Most men do not feel that their responsibility ends and until you have had to walk in their shoes, maybe you shouldn't pass judgement.

Child Support Laws are nothing more than the governments way of getting their hands and influence further into the American Family and has had no impact whatsoever on whether the children get the financial assistance that they need. It has however enriched the government coffers and created another new beuracracy that is feeding on the blood of the American People.
52 posted on 02/27/2004 9:47:15 AM PST by Leatherneck_MT (Good night Chesty, wherever you may be.)
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