The majority of people who endure abusive relationships are women. You may not see the connection, but after a "good" Jesuit education, I do.
Ah, then that 'good' Jesuit education might just be the problem! ;o)
A fellow Catholic and I have a congenial disgreement going about the Jesuits. She wants her son to attend Georgetown, and I'm trying to discourage her! I don't want her son to lose his Faith! There are a few Jesuits I admire today, among them, Fr. Joseph Fessio, but it's a very few. Too many have become enamored of their own intelligence and want to disregard Church teachings in favor of their own opinion of said teachings.