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Some Conservatives Backing Gay Marriage
Yahoo ^ | Feb 14th 2004 | Justin Pope

Posted on 02/14/2004 1:43:51 PM PST by gawd

BOSTON - In the battle over same-sex marriage, liberals have been front and center, pushing to give gays and lesbians the right to wed.

But there is at least a small block of conservatives who are on the same page, often for different reasons: They're loath to tinker with a constitution, for one, or they want to see more people — gay or straight — make commitments.

The stance is a departure from that of most conservatives, a division that supporters of gay marriage hope to exploit.

"I don't see the response to gay marriage as unified at all on the conservative side," said Glenn H. Reynolds, a supporter of gay marriage rights and publisher of the generally conservative blog Instapundit.com.

Most recent polls have shown fairly wide skepticism about gay marriage. Democrats are nearly evenly split on the matter, while most Republicans oppose it.

That split was evident this past week in the Massachusetts Legislature when three proposed amendments to the state constitution that would have banned gay marriage lost by a handful of votes each time. (Each amendment also would have allowed civil unions in some form.)

After two days of intense debate that went well into the evening, legislators failed to reach a consensus and decided to recess until next month.

If lawmakers pass such a constitutional amendment this year, it would put it on course to end up on the ballot in November 2006 — two years after court-ordered weddings are to begin taking place in the state.

A vocal contingent of conservatives are furious that activist judges have forced a revision of the law, and adamant that the millenia-old institution of marriage should be reserved for heterosexual couples.

Gay marriage would not be "the end of civilization," said David Horowitz, a prominent conservative who once opposed a constitutional amendment outlawing gay marriage but has changed his mind in light of the Massachusetts decision. "But I am an opponent of judicial tyranny. And I think there's a lot of conservatives like me."

But while many conservatives oppose activist judges, they also resist tinkering with the state and federal constitutions. On states-rights grounds, prominent right-leaning columnists like George Will have opposed a proposed federal amendment, as have key lawmakers who otherwise oppose gay marriage, like Rep. Bob Barr, R-Ga.

A few conservative commentators have articulated a case that goes beyond opposing a constitutional amendment, and actually support gay marriage.

"The conservative course is not to banish gay people from making such commitments. It is to expect that they make such commitments," David Brooks wrote recently in The New York Times, praising the virtues of fidelity. "We shouldn't just allow gay marriage. We should insist on gay marriage."

Brooks has been joined by a few fellow pundits on the right, notably Andrew Sullivan, and a handful of libertarian bloggers who say the government has no place meddling in the relationships of its citizens.

Sensing chinks in the armor, gay-rights activists are appealing to family values or a hands-off approach to the Constitution.

The gay-rights group Human Rights Campaign has touted the virtues of marriage both for gay families and America in ads that ran in establishment newspapers like The New York Times and The Washington Post.

But in the ads it ran in places like Omaha, Neb., and Indianapolis, Human Rights Campaign took a different tack, appealing to conservatives not to support a federal amendment banning same-sex marriage. In one, an elderly woman stares into the camera and says "I'm pretty conservative, but I can't support amending the constitution over this."

Seth Kilbourn, HRC's national field director, said his group believes the country's conservative leadership is split on gay marriage. His group is trumpeting the message that amending the constitution to discriminate is wrong.

"Under that message falls the conservative argument: You don't use the constitution to resolve these kinds of social debates," Kilbourn said.

The Log Cabin Republicans (news - web sites), a group of gay Republicans, is also focusing on the constitutional argument.

"We have found some conservative Republicans and a handful of senators, Democrats and Republicans, who are probably never going to be with us on equality but would probably cut their arm off before they'd mess with the constitution," said Mark Mead, the group's political director.

Social conservatives say such arguments betray the cause.

Genevieve Wood, vice president of communications for the Family Research Council, accuses Brooks and others of failing to be "true conservatives" when it comes to gay marriage.

While social conservatives and libertarians "agree on lower taxes, less government involvement," she said, "when it comes to redefining the family, we don't think that's for government to do."


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To: Abcdefg
There are no, repeat, NO conservatives backing gay marriage.

The're probably some of the same ones who support open borders, unlimited government spending, campaign finance reform, sucking up to the Kennedy cabal, etc. Or are those just leftist nuts who have infiltrated the conservative ranks and run as Republicans.

21 posted on 02/14/2004 3:05:13 PM PST by FreePaul
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To: tahiti
Excellent post.

22 posted on 02/14/2004 3:05:19 PM PST by AnnaZ ("And we know that all things work together for good to them that love God..." ~Romans 8:28a~)
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To: angkor
...gay spouses would happily adopt children no one else wanted.

Probably applies equally to pedophiles. But then that is next on the agenda.

23 posted on 02/14/2004 3:07:16 PM PST by FreePaul
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To: johnmorris886
NOPE, because the very people that wrote the Constitution made Sodomy a crime in their own states. EXPLAIN that. If the people that wrote the Constitution thought that homosexuality was a guarenteed right then I don't think they would have been so quick to make it illegal. Keep in mind they also banned: Adultery, Sex outside of marriage, Blasphemy, and Pornography. All of these things are libertarian "rights".

However, the founding father acknowledged that they might not have everything right. If they thought their philosophy was perfect, they wouldn't have included either the means to amend the constitution or the 9th Amendment.

24 posted on 02/14/2004 3:07:56 PM PST by Celtjew Libertarian (Shake Hands with the Serpent: Poetry by Charles Lipsig aka Celtjew http://books.lulu.com/lipsig)
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To: gawd
Neither Andrew Sullivan nor David Brooks are right wingers. Maybe to a liberal news man in Boston they are but not in the real world.
25 posted on 02/14/2004 3:21:06 PM PST by u-89
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To: Always Right
Mucking around with the constitution will solve nothing at all. The judges are rapidly reaching the point where they can successfully declare parts of the constitution itself unconstitutional because judges are the ultimate lawgivers in our society. The 2nd amendment will probably be the first part to be stricken in this formal way in addition to being contradicted by interpretation as has been occurring to greater and greater extent.

We have abjured impeachment of judges for anything more than simple venality and react to any legal atrocity by solemnly declaring that it is the law of the land and though we might not like it we must obey it. Earlier presidents did not tremble before judges. Modern presidents and the Congress rule only as permitted by the judges. When the Republic depends for its survival on electing the right man as president in order that the right men may be chosen as judges, then the basis for the Republic has ceased to exist. The illusion of the Republic exists only insofar as judges choose to allow it.

26 posted on 02/14/2004 3:26:01 PM PST by arthurus (fighting them OVER THERE is better than fighting them OVER HERE)
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To: Abcdefg
There are no, repeat, NO conservatives backing gay marriage.

The concept is, in fact, oxymoronic, self-contradictory, and just plain insensible. Anyone- no exceptions- who backs homosexual union to be defined as marriage is NOT conservative.

27 posted on 02/14/2004 3:29:40 PM PST by arthurus (fighting them OVER THERE is better than fighting them OVER HERE)
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To: tahiti
"Free people make their own choices and government has no business, jurisdiction, or power to the contrary."


Your argument contains an implicit assumption: That a society grows out from a state of nature as, well, a natural thing. It doesn't

A society is a group of people who get together and draw up a covenant to govern the group. The covanant is necessary for the same reason that the "group" is desired ie: nature ATTACKS all things.

Necessary to the covenent IS AGREEMENT on matters of FUNDAMENTAL morality. Political disagreement can only occur down to THAT level.

The Libertarian idea that anyone can do anything they want is at best childish. Its pure wishful thinking. The FABRIC of a society relates to the STRENGTH of the society. The strength of the society is the direct measurment of its ability to PROTECT each individual in the group.

And THAT is the FIRST point in having a society to begin with.

Or, more simply put: gays will marry over my dead frickin' body. I'm not backing up over that line.

Presumably gays (and perhaps libertarians) have the same feeling with respect to what they believe.

The revolution will be televised.

28 posted on 02/14/2004 3:31:22 PM PST by TalBlack ("Tal, no song means anything without someone else....")
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To: Ohioan
>The concept of homosexual marriage is delusional.

We live in a day when there is no longer anything considered a "self evident truth." Under such circumstances how can one make a logical case against anything? When there are no common values, no common culture, no time honored traditions held, only specious arguments and moral relevance all things are possible.

29 posted on 02/14/2004 3:31:37 PM PST by u-89
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To: johnmorris886
because the very people that wrote the Constitution made Sodomy a crime in their own states

that means nothing. to have your life dictated by 18th century wasps, some of them slave-owners, is absurd.

30 posted on 02/14/2004 3:34:52 PM PST by gawd
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To: wackyforwesties
How in the world did 2 white men get 2 white babies? I thought white infants were few and far between for adoption.

Well, obviously not if the parents are gay.

31 posted on 02/14/2004 3:37:30 PM PST by 3catsanadog (When anything goes, everything does.)
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To: FreePaul
I can see it now - NAMBLA members marrying other NAMBLA members so they can adopt their own boys to abuse.
32 posted on 02/14/2004 3:40:54 PM PST by 3catsanadog (When anything goes, everything does.)
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To: arthurus
The 2nd amendment will probably be the first part to be stricken in this formal way in addition to being contradicted by interpretation as has been occurring to greater and greater extent.

But not before the sissies of the country decide guns should be sin-taxed like cigarettes.

33 posted on 02/14/2004 3:43:07 PM PST by 3catsanadog (When anything goes, everything does.)
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To: gawd
WARNING: I'm wearing my all-inclusive flame proof suit. Having given y'all fair warning...

A conservative CANNOT be in favor of gay marriage, civil unions, or any kind of "joining" of same sex couples, or of same sex couples where one or more of the participants didn't used to be what he/she is now.

"By birth" males and females may marry. All others need not apply. That's the way God meant it to be. Do it any other way and you'll incur his wrath, if not now then certainly eventually.

34 posted on 02/14/2004 3:46:33 PM PST by upchuck (Help Stop Animal Overpopulation - Spay/Neuter Your Pets and Any Weird Friends Too...)
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To: gawd
Have a question, where is Schwarzenneger? Does he see what is going on in California? Hello! The gays are getting "married" and not any of our Republican friends are putting a stop to it?

Why isn't Scwarzenneger stopping all this and making the "marriages" illegal? Why isn't President Bush doing something?

This is ridiculous, they are breaking the law and no one is doing anything. I dont understand!
35 posted on 02/14/2004 3:50:54 PM PST by stopem
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To: tahiti
I present Amendment IX:
"The enumeration in the Constitution of certain rights, shall not be construed to deny or disparage others retained by the people."
Isn't obvious that a right "retained by the people" is to be "married" and/or have a sexual relationship with the person of your choice without any government interference?

To read that amendment your way would also make prostitution legal as it is nothing more than having "a sexual relationship with the person of your choice without any government interference" would it not?

Also your interpretation would seem to not allow for laws that prohibit the use of narcotics for recreation. Is there anything that you would not consider a "right" given under the ninth?

36 posted on 02/14/2004 3:53:21 PM PST by FreedomCalls (It's the "Statue of Liberty," not the "Statue of Security.")
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To: Celtjew Libertarian
However, the founding father acknowledged that they might not have everything right. If they thought their philosophy was perfect, they wouldn't have included either the means to amend the constitution or the 9th Amendment.

Thats a red herring. The issue is whether the men the wrote the Constitution intended the 9th Amendment to protect homosexual marriage.

Can you say with a straight face that was their intent?

Yes or No will suffice.

37 posted on 02/14/2004 3:58:02 PM PST by johnmorris886
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To: gawd
that means nothing. to have your life dictated by 18th century wasps, some of them slave-owners, is absurd.

Another red herring. And the typical Slave argument from the libertarians.

The issue is whether the INTENT of the 9th Amendment was to protect homosexual marriage. The actions of the men who wrote it demonstrates not.

38 posted on 02/14/2004 3:59:17 PM PST by johnmorris886
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To: johnmorris886
Superb answer. I salute you! The framers of the US Constitution were moralistic to a degree that nowadays we'd associate with Iranian mullahs. They didn't believe in "freedom" in the modern sense of the word, but in "ordered liberty." American society as a whole, at the time, was thoroughly moralistic -- there were laws against sundry moral offenses, obscenity, blasphemy and even sabbath-breaking and they were enforced. On top of that, there was strong social censure against those deemed guilty of moral offenses. People were not "tolerant" -- I think it safe to say that they would consider modern-day America in various ways both decadent and despotic.
39 posted on 02/14/2004 4:01:16 PM PST by Siamese Princess
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To: 3catsanadog
How in the world did 2 white men get 2 white babies? I thought white infants were few and far between for adoption.

It's very likely that one of those men really is the twins' father.

40 posted on 02/14/2004 4:05:18 PM PST by Salman (Mickey Akbar)
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