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My niece's boyfriend needs to read this. He has a bad attitude, whines about 'not being treated right', can't hold down a job, has gotten my niece pregnant, can't pay the bills but can afford to buy cigarettes, is a know-it-all loudmouth and is on the sure path to being another parasite on the system - and he's only 22! And no, he's not black - he's white. I just want to smack that boy upside the head!!

Rant over!

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Accepting status as victim is a guarantee of failure.

Responsibility is empowering. When you start accepting responsibility for the majority of things that happen to you in your life, you come to the realization that you have power over them.

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A phone call from Dr. Phil might help....http://www.ebaumsworld.com/drphil1.html