The left see these as flaws. They'd rather have low expectation, flexability to explore alternative styles, no wrong answers just grey areas, and don't bother persuing anything if it was meant to be it will happen all by itself.
It's all in how you look at it. In this case the poor woman thinks she is slamming the man. On the contrary, his strength of character is miles above hers. Her mission will never end, because it is based upon false foundations.