Speaking of Hillary, Father Mike's was the one and only 911 funeral she attended. After the gay community decided to turn Judge into a martyr for their cause Hillary headed right up to her adopted home state to console them. 300+ other firemen received no such commiseration.
Father Mike reached out to a lot of people. If he were gay, his most likely way of dealing with it would have been to addressing it publicly: "Look, I'm a gay man, but with God's help I'm trying to be celibate."