I'm a woman who often looks but rarely buys little frivolous things for myself. When we're out shopping, my husband tends to notice the things that I look at or comment upon. Rather than storing that information in his memory for a future surprise, he will sometimes stop right then and say, "You like those? Let's buy you one......which one do you like?" Even if it's just an inexpensive item, I am always thrilled when he does this, especially when he joins in and helps me with the selection process. We're both assured that I'm getting something that I really like, yet the spontaneity of the gift giving is still there......and the positive comments we get from salespeople when he does this are an added benefit for both of us.