Such an Attitude indicates that We (American Males) have been SERIOUSLY SHORTCHANGED in our "Sexual Education!!"
IF we (American Males) were taught how to "Please" our "Females," the "Proper Response" of our American Females would be, that we (the "sex-Partners of American Females") are TOO TIMID to FORCE appropriate Orgasms.
American Males have been CASTRATED by "Feminism."
There is a SOCIOBIOLOGIC Continuum which accepts the "Biology" of Humans.
"Feminism" is an OBSCENE PERVERSION of Basic Human "Sociobiology!"
"Women & Men" are a "Complimentary SET" of representative Organisms.
We are DESIGNED to "Complement Each Other!!"
Our "Individual Condition" was DESIGNED (By Who Knows??) to COMPLEMENT & Enhance the "Condition" of "The Other!"
In Short, "Society" seems to have been MEANT TO be "Enhanced By" the Interaction of "Men & Women!!"
Maybe That's WHY MOST MEN are Highly Gratified By the (Multiple) Orgasms of Their "Women!!"
If a Woman regards--even Multiple Orgasms--as an "Involuntary Biological Reaction,"; MOST MEN--who have Precipitated "Multiple Orgasms" in their "Loved Ones"--regard such a "Feat" as a "Feather-in-Their-Cap!!"
Most Men regard the "Generation of Orgasms" in thier "Lovers" as a "Measure" of Their "Expertise in SEX"!
Doc
I suppose the "It's all the man's fault" accusation is true many times, but it is also a copout. Too often I talk to men who would welcome any direction from their wives on the matter but get frigid silence instead. It is probably born of her ignorance, but you can shake only so many books in a woman's face before you realize you can lead a horse to water but you can't make her drink.
Take the Kegel exercise, which could restore sexual function in many women. Try getting a woman to do it. Yet if that certain unpronounceable muscle lacks tone, no man will ever please that woman with intercourse.