[MEGoody]

I think you meant to post this to someone else. But I agree with you.

[chris1]

I am what you might call a 100% male and often respond in kind. For example, significant other does not want to have sex, I knee jerk assume its something about me - looks, whatever, but at the end of the day it is usually something so friviouls not even dealing with me. Anyway, hormonally, it is of no consolation to me that the hair dresser made a stupid remark that was dumb and resulted in a slight. Additionally, being frustrated at that point, I am not in the mood to hear about why I need to be sensitive to this sort of thing while I myself am already frustrated. See where I am with this??? Then I am accussed of not being sensitive.