[independentmind]

Although it might seem lazy or silly to send electronic messages instead of getting out of a chair and walking into the next room, some psychologists say that the role of the technology within families can be remarkably positive. In many cases, they say, the messages are helping to break down the interpersonal barriers that often prevent open communication.

Pardon me if I'm somewhat skeptical of this claim. The best interpersonal communication requires eye contact.

[leadpencil1]

The best interpersonal communication requires eye contact.

Agreed. See post 9.

[fml]

I agree. Interpersonanal? It's computer communication, not very personal at all.

[ClearCase_guy]

The best interpersonal communication requires eye contact.

The new issue of Smithsonian Magazine has an interestign article on how poorly people do at recognizing human facial expressions. Are you mad at me? or in Pain? Oh! You're trying to remember where you put your car keys!

Facial expressions are important. Tone of voice is important. Social skills are important. Instant Messaging has unintended consequences -- and they are not good.