[Beach_Babe]

From mail I sent to Vets_Husband_and_Wife who has been giving me such a wonderful support during this crisis:

12/7/03:

They are not treating the liver at all --- they are trying to get rid of the spinal cord abscess --- which, I guess, they think is a more immediate problem. Everything I’ve been able to find on the web about spinal abscesses says that they require “URGENT” surgery. But she doesn’t have the option because of the damaged liver. She’s on six-weeks of antibiotics, then they’ll do another MRI. I think they’re in the fourth week now. But again, from what I’ve read, the antibiotics will not penetrate the abscess.

Until this week I did think she was improving. She wasn’t as groggy as in the beginning and wasn’t sleeping as much. But this past week has been all down hill. She was without a catheter for about thirty-six hours --- but that’s back in. And back in a hospital gown too. Until yesterday she was asking for the bedpan for bowel movements, now she’s just pooping in the bed. Another spinal abscess symptom. Urine, which was black until the day after I posted the original prayer thread, remains reddish. At one point it turned to a darkish yellow for a day or two. Eyes remain white but there is a yellow tinge beneath them.

She is not eating; her face is becoming thin as the rest of her body swells. Her torso and legs are gigantic. I can hardly fit a sock on her foot --- I’m bringing down crocheted booties today, they’ll stretch. She’s always cold. I tucked her in last night with three blankets and wrapped another around her head. I’m bringing a hat too. It’s supposed to go down to freezing here tonight.

They have those pulsating leg thingies on her now and have put a trapeze above her bed --- so she can grab with her arms to try to move. She’s just about paralyzed --- has trouble turning her head. She cannot roll over by herself to get cleaned. If unabated, the progression of the spinal cord abscess is severe permanent paralysis and neurological damage --- and possibly death. Her breathing was labored last night and she’s had a cough for a few days. Her speech is slurred --- very slurred --- I have trouble understanding anything she says. ‘Tho everything she’s been saying is so confused --- she’s paranoid --- if it’s not the ‘army people’, it’s someone stealing something from her at her home back in New Jersey, or people hiding in the bathroom.

Marilyn’s being hit hard by two different things right now and I don’t know if she’s going to make it. She’s so weak.

On top of it all, she has no medical insurance and the hospital has been bugging me about her assets. As they’ve pointed out, she owes them hundreds of thousands of dollars and they want to put her on Medicaid after taking just about everything she owns. She recently relocated to Florida from New Jersey and wasn't able to find employment here yet. She wanted to leave a hospital setting and either work with animals in her new life or in a doctor's office on a part time basis.

[Beach_Babe]

Original Prayer Thread here

[countrydummy]

Prayers up!

[muggs]

Prayer bump for your sister and you.

[Sam Cree]

Prayers for Marilyn

[nina0113]

prayers sent

[PGalt]

What a wonderful sister!

[2nd amendment mama]

Lifting your sister up in Prayer....

[SouthernHawk]

Prayers going up and Blessings coming down.

Lord, we lift Marilyn up to you in our thoughts and prayers. We pray for her swift and complete recovery. May you guide the hands of her doctors and help mend her body in this time of need. We pray that you comfort those who are concerned for her health, as they try to comfort her. Amen

[katnip]

Prayers for you and Marilyn.

[shezza]

Praying for Marilyn...and may God give you strength as you continue to take care of her.

[raybbr]

May God keep you and your family in His love. I pray that He holds you close and comforts you in your time of need.

[mombonn]

Will pray right now. Our Lord is the Great Physician.

[MissAmericanPie]

Your sister is in my prayers.

[AmericanMade1776]

Prayer sent.

[NautiNurse]

May God grant you and your family strength and comfort during this difficult time.

[evets]

I'm praying and believing for Marilyn's good health right now.

[RiflemanSharpe]

Praying

[eyespysomething]

Prayers for your sister Marilyn. And prayers for you and your family in this time of crisis.

[EagleMamaMT]

God bless your sister. I will be praying for her, and for you as her caregiver. God bless you for being a loving, caring sister.

[Joe Brower]

Prayers sent. Have faith -- all will be well.