Free Republic
Browse · Search
News/Activism
Topics · Post Article

To: Velveeta
"It's interesting to see it mentioned again that he didn't want children."

This is not uncommon among these types of folks for at least three reasons. 1. They would not be the center of attention. 2. The baby would cost money. More money for the baby means less money for the things/activities the person enjoys. 3. Parenting requires emotional and psychological involvement. Often the narcissist feels inadequate or even terrified of these types of demands.
617 posted on 01/02/2004 7:02:50 PM PST by drjulie
[ Post Reply | Private Reply | To 612 | View Replies ]


To: drjulie
Often the narcissist feels inadequate or even terrified of these types of demands

Interesting insight. Perhaps terrified enough to kill.

Doc, if we now see that SP had told previous girlfriends that he didn't want children, I would assume that he told Laci that as well. Why do you suppose he went along with "trying to have a baby" with Laci for about one year before she became pregnant?

Also, is narcissism a learned or inherited type of behavior?

619 posted on 01/02/2004 7:22:45 PM PST by Velveeta
[ Post Reply | Private Reply | To 617 | View Replies ]

To: drjulie
It's still so OUT THERE, to me, that a narcissist wouldn't instead look at their "spawn" as "oh, look--an adorable little ME"!

I did, however, see one example of what you're talking about, in a movie recently. I was watching the A&E series "Vanity Fair". Don't know if you're familiar with the story, but it's good, see it if you get the chance. The character Becky Sharp is (in my layman's opinion) a narcissist and a con artist. And guess what? She really, really hates her own child. Always shunts him aside. Always tries to get him away from her. Can't stand to share the limelight--as you said.
625 posted on 01/02/2004 9:11:37 PM PST by Devil_Anse
[ Post Reply | Private Reply | To 617 | View Replies ]

Free Republic
Browse · Search
News/Activism
Topics · Post Article


FreeRepublic, LLC, PO BOX 9771, FRESNO, CA 93794
FreeRepublic.com is powered by software copyright 2000-2008 John Robinson