Not in the eyes of GOD. However it is just a matter of time now before EVERY STATE in the UNION will HAVE to recognize GAY marriage. The only thing that can stop it is a Constitutional Amendment.
And I think there will be. The GOP needs to get this going now and make it a huge campaign issue. This will put the Dems in a huge bind. Support it and lose their base, or oppose it and show just how far out of the mainstream they are.
You are probably right and that's sad that we have to add to the constitution to accomplish what the framers of that document didn't even consider. If they had pondered for another hundred years before writing that document they would not have dreamed that society would ever sink to that level of decadence.
Before long we may be pushing for a constitutional amendment banning sex between adults and children--If Nambla and the ACLU has their way.
The state is irrelevant in real marriage. They can use laws to grant certain privileges to certain people, but it has nothing to do with marriage.
A piece of paper issued by some government employee doesn't make you married. Promises made before and to God make you married. The rest is just politics.