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I know what you mean about the revolving door relationships. I've seen it time after time. One of my best friends lost a long term relationship because he couldn't keep it in his pants. When his partner found out, he left. My friend hasn't had a long term relationship since then and is very lonely (nothing worse than an old gay guy).

However, one of the family members I'm thinking of was w/her partner for 50+ years, until she died. They never brought up their lifestyle and her partner is treated like a member of the family.

As I stated, I think the older people knew how to mind their own business. These younger gays are so intent on being outrageous that they miss the few opportunities for real relationships that come their way.

For the "newer gays", as you referred to them, everything about their sexuality is for political purposes. Political, meaning to make some sort of point.