[Normally a Lurker]

You have stated again that you know she is in misery

I didn't state that I "knew" anything of the sort. I said she was "apparently" in misery. It is you and most of the others comment here that assert that she is not in a non-feeling state. You can't have it both ways. And you shouldn't attribute your assumptions to me.

[Harmless Teddy Bear]

I said she was "apparently" in misery.

It is not apparent to me that she is.

How is it apparent to you?