A bald faced lie.
"If you're not married, if you're gay, or a common-law wife or husband who've been together for a long time, if this law holds up, then your mom is going to make the decisions, not your partner. You have no legal rights. They're out the window."
As I understand it, without a living will, you have no say in the matter if you can't speak anymore. It is left to your loved ones and the state, and that includes parents, relatives and children as well as any interested parties. The law is clear, you need demonstrable proof you really decided to die, and absent your own testimony, you need a notarized document such as living will. How simple can you get?
No one wants to live in a vegetative state on tubes forever, but no one really knows if they will. But the mere fact that I might have some day said I wished someone would die is not the legal equivalent of killing them, including myself.