Make sure you put it in writing. Our state has a living will statute, and after it's signed and witnessed, it's got to be filed with your doctor(s) AND with the hospitals before it's honored.
AND we have a living will that goes to the hospital if I go.
When my husband was admitted to our local hospital they ASKED if we had a living will and we gave them a copy.
I only hope and pray that people who have their own agenda and not my personal wishes don't get themselves inserted into our family.
Such a burden is offensive. My life and death belong to me. Not to the state, not to the church and not to the courts.
Dying with dignity means that if I clearly communicate my wishes to others, MY wishes should be followed. I accept the role of the courts to judge if I have clearly communicated my wishes. I DO NOT accept the role of the legislature in making me jump through hoops in order to have my wishes carried out.