It is the women who loftily sleep their way to the top, or take all the attention, favors, and attention for granted, but keep rebuffing suitable men, only to find they cut it too close, and now have to cast their sights downward, once their looks fade, who are shallow.
As for cruelty: even average women have access to far more dates to far more attractive men. Women date *up* and all women now seek the top 10% of men. (E.g. I knew a 38-year old divorcee with two kids who was trying to date the CEO of a company.) The rest of the men are left in the cold. Women hitting the wall just discover what most of life has been like for most men.
You are worse than shallow and cruel.
You are demented.
Ouch. THERE'S a car crash waiting to happen.