HOWEVER, i did end up spraying a couple that we were talking to, with red wine, when i dropped my cup (plastic cups, it was not a high class affair...) i felt bad, but what the heck could i do? i guess i didn't make things much better, when, as we continued talking to them, and it became apparent that she is a lib, that i started getting a bit pointed in my remarks... hey, i'll never see these people again, and i dind't humiliate xshub too much. he did rag on me about it the rest of the weekend, and the kids accused me of attempting to start a food fight... it was pretty funny. OH and the Muffster didn't show.