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And my hubby said, "He[ck], we're not ALL bad guys!".

He hasn't talked to my ex...

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Thanks for correcting my typo. No, he hasn't talked to your ex! It was pretty amusing, though. Two perfectly good husbands trying to defend the honor of other husbands! I must say though, one of my sisters didn't have a good husband. What a creep he turned out to be. I'd say he had classic anti-social behavior - seemed very charming and friendly at first, but is very self-centered and unemotional. He fooled a lot of people. They've been divorced for 15 years. He caused grief in the family until their son graduated from college and the folks didn't have to talk to each other anymore.