[1stFreedom]

Well, if you kids take a bus to college, that solves the problem.

>>What you're missing is that you can not stand on guard over a 20 year old

No, but you can have and enforce ground rules. They don't like them, they can move out ON THEIR OWN with their own money and resources. College room and board isn't cheap.

[Cagey]

Well, if you kids take a bus to college, that solves the problem.

You're being silly now. Just do the best you can do. Pass on your knowledge and your values and pray they always remember to respect themselves and others. Going away to college is not an evil thing. They'll make mistakes on their own and if they are smart, they will learn and strive to do better. But, you know that already.