What I have learned to do in the Hole is when something ticks me off or just plain rubs me the wrong way, I tell myself that if I'm still upset about it the next day, I'll post something after I've cooled off.
Usually, by the next day, I have blown it off.
That is a bad thing in a way since I become a doormat to some people in RL, but it is my nature to be non-confrontational. Ask trini - she knows me better than anyone.
< cue music>There ain't no good guy, there ain't no bad guy, it's just you and me and we just disagree...< /end music > LOL!