Ha! Jeanne told me before we even got married that I wasn't even to be rude to her. 'Course I don't want to be (mostly). But I am nearly as hard headed as she is, which is saying something.
OTOH, the Mom that I grew up with could shoot a shotgun, rifle and pistol very well, and did often. After Dad died, she slept with a .38. She also was a better fisherman than most guys, and loved that too. But Dad was good at all that stuff also, what with having been in combat in Europe.
Man, 1948 seems like a long time ago, I can't even remember that far back, only to 1950.
HA! - She probably doesn't tolerate 'rolling of the eyes' when you want to say something but don't! Tough!