Additional strain on her right now is that she's keeping 2 extra children for one of the lady soldiers in my son-in-law's platoon. The lady's husband decided that now was the time to walk out on family and divorce wife.
Good grief! But you are right! - Having to save another situation that is nuts might help her not become nuts herself with worry and hormones!
Your daughter, her husband, and your family is in my prayers. I was not aware you had direct family serving right now. Glad I know. Extra prayers.