When and in what State, did they marry?
Where is any evidence of either in Kentucky before the fall of 1808?
Surely no one will dispute that both were employed by Abraham Enloe as of 1-1-1804, he at the main Rutherford plantation and she at the Bostic farm.
Where is any evidence they were married at all before the fall of 1808?
Even if somehow the bearded Abe could (at 13?) win rail-splitting contests against grown men in 1822 New Salem, surely no one will deny that his antecedents were leading remarkably parallel lives in Rutherford County, NC, in 1803-08, years just before [or after!] his birth!
A myth is really better than the truth, after all. It may be closer to what is needed, demanded, by the spirit of the times. Carl Sandburg knew all about this, but all he dared do was move from his native Illinois to a spot in North Carolina near the true birthplace, where the Emancipator's poet/biographer lived out the rest of his days.
Enloe was bankrolled by Howard Hughes. That's what I heard.
And you are totally ignoring Lincoln's twin sister Mercury? Why is that?
Walt
Where were Nancy Hanks and Tom Lincoln in 1804? - Thomas Lincoln was in Washington County, Kentucky from 1786 to 1803. From 1803 to 1806, he lived in Hardin County, Kentucky (Mill Creek farm near Elizabethtown, Kentucky), and from 1806 to 1808 (Elizabethtown, Kentucky), from 1808 to 1811 (Sinking Spring farm), 1811 to 1816 (Knob Creek farm), etc. Each of these locations is identified by a variety of records which are readily available (tax records, mortgages, jury records, deeds, bills of sale, records of debt, etc.). While written documentation proving Nancy Hanks's whereabouts during 1804 and 1805 is lacking, there exist several oral traditions which place her in the home of Richard Berry in Washington County, Kentucky during this period.
When and in what State, did they marry? - There exists a document dated June 11, 1806, in Washington County, Kentucky. It is a bond for her marriage to Thomas Lincoln which occurred one day later on June 12, 1806. A second record, the marriage return of the minister who performed the marriage (Jesse Head), is also extant and lists the marriage as occurring on June 12, 1806, in Washington County, Kentucky.
Where is any evidence of either in Kentucky before the fall of 1808? - See reply 1.
Surely no one will dispute that both were employed by Abraham Enloe as of 1-1-1804, he at the main Rutherford plantation and she at the Bostic farm. - I will dispute it. Thomas Lincoln was in Kentucky at the time.
Where is any evidence they were married at all before the fall of 1808? - the marriage documents exist. See reply 2.
Abraham Lincoln had an older sister, Sarah Lincoln, born in 1807 in Elizabethtown, Kentucky. If older, she must have been born in North Carolina according to the Enloe legend. Was Enloe also the father of Sarah? If born in 1807, Sarah would in fact be younger than Abe. Assuming Sarah was born in 1807, and was therefore younger than Abraham according to your legend, then all subsequent information about her is confusing. She married Aaron Grigsby while living in Indiana with her family in 1828 (age 21) when Abe was either 19 or 24. Surely the difference between 19 and 24 would have been obvious? The earliest record in Lincoln's own hand known to exist is dated 1824 and consists of his writing in a homemade school assignment book. If he was born in 1804 then he would be 20 years old at the time of the writings, too old for school by any standards of the time.
About the only part of your post I'll agree with is the fact that in this case you do find myth more attractive than the truth. And the truth is that the evidence is against your story.