Then you should work on changing society, and not be trying to use the government to do it for you. Social engineering as a function of government is a liberal idea, and requires a liberal government to make it work. A liberal government, even under the control of social conservatives will not produce a conservative society.
Uh you are missing the point again, a conservative society will bring about a conservative government.
We live in the days where the ACLU/Libertarian/Anarchic factions have made great strides in society in the last 40 years and we have seen the results and it seems that you want more of that.