It was one of the few times in this case that anyone has spoken without restraint and from the heart. If you can't see that, then you simply don't want to see it.
If she were 'speaking from her heart' she wouldn't have quit this approach after 2-3 times and gone to other approaches, This was the plan du joir based on what they were thinking for whatever reason at the time and her thinking changed. Again I say, move on.