[unspun]

He went like one that hath been stunned,
And is of sense forlorn....

So what are you trying to say?

[Pan_Yans Wife]

I would ask the Wedding-Guest... but, if you read the poem, you'll see that the Mariner is compelled to travel the world, telling his tale. So, in a sense, he isn't lost. Just because you can't find someone, doesn't mean they are missing.