I'm not quite 40 yet.... This is my first year at 39 and intend to have several more ;)
My personal observation, and I know I'll be flamed for it, is that there are only 2 "smart" posters in the VDA camp, and they have both been very dishonest. In fact, the less-mature-seeming one of the 2 isn't necessarily all that smart, just likes to try to sound smart.
I'll leave it to you to guess which 2 posters I mean.
Yeti, my grandmother's sister (born sometime before 1920) lied about her age so much, she forgot how old she really is. She has no birth certificate, and no one has been able to find the family Bible - so no one knows for sure when she was born. All we know is that she's around six years older than my grandma!