You "sense" bad motives on the part of the people who are trying to be treated as human beings. Guess what? Those people "sense" that your motives are about deceit, and arrogance, and self centeredness to the point of treating others inhumanely, and waving it off as no big deal. And you'll make up any stupid lame excuse you can think of to keep things as they are for as long as you can. That's what they think.
You can't stop this, you know. The state is taking people's children away. This can only blow up. Keeping what lid you can on it only makes sure that when the correction comes, it will be more severe.