[Pining_4_TX]

I agree with you completely. Women are insane for allowing themselves to be used by man after man, and then expecting to find a husband. It doesn't work that way. Personally, I'd like to see the old chaperone system return. Chaperones were not there to restrict women; they were there to protect them. That would pretty much be the end of date rape, for one thing.

[Jim Noble]

>>Women are insane for allowing themselves to be used by man after man, and then expecting to find a husband<<

I agree with the thrust of your comments-but I think they are quite pejorative, unnecessarily so, towards men.

I have two sons, age 22 and 18. Girls at their age are quite sexually aggressive. They have both been involved in relationships where it is quite unclear who is using whom.

I was single for several years in my 40s. I met many women whose dating policy was, "F*** first, ask questions later".

This is, as you point out, a very poor strategy for husband-finding. I'm not at all sure that women who search this way are victims, however.