If you turn on the garbage disposal in your kitchen sink and then stick your hand in it, it's going to really screw up your hand and your life.
Now, is that a reason or an excuse to not put your hand in the disposal?
Now, is that a reason or an excuse to not put your hand in the disposal?
Excellent analogy!
Sane people do not put their hands intop garbage disposal. OTOH, lots of sane people get married.