Part of the problem is that the divorcing women have excessive self-esteem. They have no clue about how much harder it is for a woman 35+ with kids to get another guy. On the flip side, a guy who keeps himself in reasonable shape and has a decent job can get female companionship at pretty much any age (Actor Anthony Quinn managed to father a child by his mistress at the age of 78)
You might try dating older, divorced women. When I was 23, I dated a lady in her late 30's, and it was fun. The older ones who've already had their quota of kids are not under time pressure, and you may even be able to hold an actual conversation with them
Maybe if you were a prize worth having, the worthwhile women would be clustered around you.
The guys on this thread whine more than Phil Donahue. If you want to be men, suck it up and get on things.
Pathetic
So9