I thought the article that started this thread was about men avoiding marriage now because of these things. Did you read that article? If you did, why would you ask this question?
1) how much due diligence was performed on these wives? Were the main criteria used how good she was in bed and what she looked like in a bathing suit? (If male readers of FR consider other criteria, you would never know it from their posts.)
2)What kind of discussions took place before the marriage on what each partner expected from the other?
3)Why aren't there any interviews with the wives who decided to divorce their husbands?
You know very little without the answers. All I see is men whining.