[narses]

The answer? Marry for love, not money. Include, if you want permanence, God in the contract. Make the vows meaning them. Take the time before the wedding (we took years) to really get to know each other, especially under pressure and in crisis. If money is your lodestone, study the wealthy. You'll discover that most of the wealthy (not including inheirited or 'found' wealth) marry into their own peer group and do so with the intent of permanence and with love as a prerequisite. (If you want love defined, imho it is the willingness to sacrifice for another.) In other words, imho, if you want money you first need love.

[maui_hawaii]

Marry for love, not money.

Marrying for money is stupid. Its even more stupid if you are already rich.

Now back to the rules...

[matrix]

Wow! Are you living in a dream world! Women have absolutely no sense of fairness when it comes to these matters.

"Hell hath no fury..."