[CIB-173RDABN]

I agree. Further, I could never see the point in making children a part of a wedding ceremony. Perhaps the parents think it is cute, I find it distracting.

...or maybe they are planing on selling the video of the wedding to American Funniest Video...

[Paul Atreides]

From what I have seen, either the kids are scared to death being the center of attention as ring-bearer/flower girl, or they just don't want to be there or understand what is going on. I know, from what my sister-in-law went through planning her wedding, that weddings are hectic enough. Why would anyone compound the grief by putting in a child who is too young?