I don't mind the Confederate flag, because it is a symbol of brave kids who fought and died to protect their families, homes and way of life. That's honorable. I'm glad South Carolinans told the world to stick it - people of communities can choose their own cultural icons, and the offended can hit the road if they can't abide the insult.
We need to get past all the 137 year old humiliation and obsessing though. That War is no longer a legitimate grievance for inter-generational poverty, lagging health and poor education in much of the South. We're Americans - Army Rangers don't care if the brother next to them is from Maine or Mississippi, black or white, Christian or Jew - he's kin. Geez, Abe Lincoln took an assassin's bullet in the head for his trouble. What more do some here want - General Sherman's ancestors to walk backwards replanting their tobacco fields and rebuilding livery stables?